Have you ever liked someone so much, but don’t get to figure out how to make the first move, or that first impression? Well, at some point, we all have liked someone at school, college and even work place. Isn’t that nerve-wracking? You want to ask him or her out, all you can do is get nervous and run away? Yes, most of us knows how that feels like. No one is an exemption to that nerve-shattering, knee shaking feeling. When it comes to that, both men and women get shy, don’t know how to act or what to say. Don’t worry, that’s completely normal. Most people say: just ask the person already! Honestly, it’s far from being that easy. First, there’s a process where you have to examine the person, learn their interests (bands, hobbies, etc). Second, you must establish a short, introductory conversation, even if it sounds lame. By the way, it’s just to get you noticed.
Making the first move.
This is when it gets interesting and when your nerves start to shatter. When it comes to this, no one has the courage to do it at first. Here, your confidence and self-esteem get tested to the maximum. After learning their hobbies and everything, that’s when you jump in. Okay, not literally jump unto the person. You don’t want to creep them out. Meaning, that you must go and start a random, but short conversation. A good conversation can start by talking about music, sports, favorite places to go, a cute smile for the person to see or just a: Hey, I like your shirt. Those are simple tips that most of you can do to get noticed and get that date with the person you always wanted to go out with. But, there’s a little detail that you should know. That is, a first and good impression. Don’t forget, it’s something that comes with the “making your move” package. No, don’t get scared. You will get through this and you will be a champion. Believe in yourself!
A first and good impression.
Good impressions are always important. It’s nearly a matter of life and death. If you don’t make it at first, you might not be able to make a second attempt (it depends on the person). You’re probably scared with wide open eyes, right? With these tips up next, you will be back on your place and not at the edge of your seat. When it comes to first impressions, it’s not about fancy outfits, expensive make up, tuxedos or limousines. It’s about being yourself at all times and letting the person know that you’re not like the others.
Guys, when making a first impression, don’t go overboard and rent a tuxedo or a fancy car. You’re not going to a wedding for crying out loud. A nice shirt, a long with a good cologne, some flowers or chocolate will be just fine. That small detail will make her feel special. Girls like a man that can get to know her, establish a connection and make her feel like the only one.
Girls, when making a first impression, please don’t use heavy make up or an expensive outfit. First, you’re not going to be modeling. Second, you’re not a clown and third, guys don’t like girls like that. They’re into natural, fresh-looking, simple and down to earth girls that they can sit down and have a conversation with.
It’s time to make a move, come on!
With this being said, now it’s time to make that first move. You’re probably experiencing butterflies inside your stomach, cold sweating or just your knees shaking like leaves. If you want to make the first move before someone else does, you might as well do it now before it gets too late for you. Backing up is not an option here. You never know if you never try. You have to believe in yourself and what you’re capable of doing. So, stand up and make that move. You’re a champion!