ASTROLOGY STRIPPERS, And CLUBBING by J.E. Ante
Astrology was probably invented by a sensitive person who has spent long hours and years in meditation. With this comes a much increased sensitivity to emotions in others and also a sensitivity of the astrological natal energies that impact others and incline them to act in a certain way at a certain time. Being mildly autistic as a child and my lifelong interest in meditation and contemplation has lead me to investigate these subtle astrological energies in the astrology of planets as both an astrologer and a sensitive or empathic individual.
I started going to strip clubs in 2012 after a long absence during the Super Bowl weekend. Mostly I liked the smoke filled rooms because they cut down on my empathic abilities to almost zero except for those very near me. I soon started collecting birthdays which is a hobby of mine as an astrologer. I was interested in finding out what makes a exotic dancer dance or what astrological aspects make a very good exotic dancer who makes the higher incomes. My findings and two new invented areas of astrology are reported in this article.
First, I found that the natural higher paid dancers had the natal Sun in conjunction with the other planets at birth especially Venus and Pluto. Another very common natal aspect was Venus conjunction Mars in the natal charts of the highest paid dancers. These 11 natal aspects of the planets I called the “Dancer” Aspects and without these natal aspects I rated the dancer a “Soccer Mom” which was actually what most of these exotic dancers were anyway in real life.
I probably got allot of grief from the dancers rated “Soccer Moms” but there is a dark side of the Dancer aspects which I generally did not discuss. The dancers with one or more of these natal “Dancer” aspects are likely to be abused as a child, teen, or later raped and possibly killed. The Sun when in conjunction these planets greatly magnifies the energy of these planets and creates a much greater male attraction to the woman throughout their entire lives including when they are very young. Additionally the ladies themselves will have greatly magnified sex drives especially at the lunar aspect times which magnify them further. So Soccer Moms may have it harder to sell a couch dance but the ladies with the “Dancer” aspects probably need the extra income to shield them from the increased attention from men throughout their entire lives.
In the future children with the three strongest “Dancer” aspects in their natal charts might be noted and watched to guard against possible child abuse and later teen pregnancy and rapes. These three aspects are natal Sun conjunction natal Pluto, natal Sun conjunction natal Venus, and natal Venus conjunction natal Mars and also their close squares and oppositions which are within 3 degrees of exact. These three natal aspects would seem to be at greatest risk of child abuse and all other types of sexual abuse and mishaps later on in life because of their amplified sexual energies. The Sun conjunction Pluto magnifies the root chakra and doubles both the sexual energy transmitted and also the sexual energy felt by the person with this natal aspect. The Sun conjunction Venus magnifies the love energies generated and felt by the person. And the Venus conjunction Mars natal aspect of the love and physical energies compliments and magnifies these natal energies and makes for strong male attraction and stronger attraction felt by the individual women. These three magnified natal sexual energies and aspects are with a person their entire lives and are magnified by the natal conjunctions.
The exotic dancers as a whole seems to be made up of three general groups — gays, bisexuals, and straight women. The lesbians make up about 10%, the bisexuals 30%, and straights about 60% in my estimations and experience. What is most interesting to me is the bisexuals. Many bi-sexual dancers are often extremely beautiful women who are dysfunctional in some way with men or have been repeatedly hurt by them in the past. These women find comfort in the arms of a woman and seek to take themselves “off the market” from men at least for a time with a lesbian love relationship. Not all bisexual dancers are dysfunctional with men and hiding out in relationships with women of course. In astrology the energies of attraction work equally well between both same sexes and the opposite sex and so we are all bisexual to some degree or other in our astrological attractions to others. Only early childhood conditioning seems to determine our main lifelong sexual preferences. And so many bi-sexual women are actually happy and well adjusted with either male or female sexual relationships.
It was easy to identify two of the main dysfunctional behaviors of bisexual women dancers which are dysfunctional behaviors in the general population as well. They are giving men the “silent treatment” and/or “intentionally slighting” them in some way to discourage unwanted advances from men. Both of these behaviors cause the majority of problems for both the men and the dancers in relating at the strip clubs. And in extreme cases these behaviors cause assaults on the women by men who were slighted or given the silent treatment. Both of these dysfunctional behaviors by women are begun in the school systems especially middle and high schools when dating starts. And these exotic dancer seem to continue this dysfunctional behavior as adults.
The “silent treatment” and/or avoidance of men is the first behavior which these dysfunctional dancers and women in the general populations use most. This behavior confuses men because they have no information or little information to go one and can not meet the woman to clarify or have “closure”. And so men often continue to show up at the clubs to talk to these women they are attracted to to resolve, clarify, and find resolution and/or closure. But from the dancers point of view they are “stalking” her and her silent treatment should work to turn him away but he is just not “getting it”. And so a continuous stalking cycle is born due to simple lack of information and communication between the sexes.
I was a night manager of a 150 room hotel for six years this same “stalking” behavior of the staff came up with the female maids, waitresses, and staff members. (Our hotel was near a military base and had 50% military every night in our club bar). Our hot bartenders were the exceptions to this stalking behavior so I talked to them about this problem of men “stalking” the lady staff members. They said that the “silent treatment” doesn’t work on some men especially military men because they are so aggressive. And soldiers are often taught to be highly suspicious of avoidance behaviors and people who do not look them in the eyes. The bartenders said a simple 2 minute spill that they were “married”, or “in a relationship”, or generally :not available or interested” is all that was needed to end this “stalking” behavior in men. Whenever a man showed interest in dating the barmaids they simply faced them squarely and gave them the 2 minute spill that they were not interested or not available. They repeated this same spill sometime many many times per night to many different men in the club/bar. This 2 minute spill ends the lack of communication and hard feelings from men who are given the ‘silent treatment” or avoidance and this brings closure for the men and an end to the stalking. But some women just never get it that they are actually causing this stalking behavior in men due to their own silent treatment and avoidance behaviors and lack of courage in facing the man directly and talking to them to find closure with their own 2 minute spill.
As a motel night manager I often gave a lady staff member the coaching to develop their 2 minute spill to tell male guests. And I explained that they were causing the “stalking” problems themselves by simply not facing the problem squarely and telling the guy directly they were not interested or not available. And this usually got through and they developed a two minute spill of their own they used whenever needed instead of the silent treatment or avoidance behaviors that were not working well.
The second dysfunctional behavior women dancers use is “intentional slighting” or “dissing” a man in some way to discourage them from unwanted advances. This is most often used with the “silent treatment” and is an escalation of the silent treatment dysfunctional behavior. This “intentional slighting” behavior is by far the most dangerous for women to use and often causes extreme responses in some men especially in three male personality types. These personality types are the farmer/hunter types that are used to killing, hunting, and slaughtering animals, the military elite soldier personality type trained to stalk and kill humans with guns, hands and knives, and the Latin machismo personality types that are often drug runners or coyotes. All of these three personality types of men frequent strip clubs and are highly dangerous if offended by a woman with intentional slighting or dissing behaviors from women. And these men have the exact skills to extract revenge and death on women and often get away with it as serial killers when intentionally offended by women. The solution of course is for dancers to avoid intentionally slighting or dissing a man to discourage unwanted advances and simply learn and use the direct approach of the 2 minute spill that they are not interested or available for dating. This keeps everything above board and clarified for both sexes and future relating. Contacts in the strip clubs remain cordial or the very least become far less difficult and strained between the dancers and male customers. And a dancer will spend less time in the backroom recouping or “hiding out” from the men customers they are having difficulty relating socially.
There are two types of astrology that I developed during this one year’s time observing in strip clubs. One is a weekly emotional calender which an individual has that repeats every week for your entire lifetime. This is simply the square, conjunction, and opposition aspects of the moon as the moon transits the natal planets each week. Your main emotions repeat every week in the same order your entire lifetime and it is great to know the exact day and hours you will be happy, sad, emotional, sexy, energized, physical, loving, dreamy, excited, when the moon stimulates your natal planetary degrees. Out of this simple weekly emotional calendar of the dancers I learned the second important astrological information of when a person is sexy or horny each week. And what is most interesting about this knowledge is that it is the same for people of the same ages. So with this information I have developed a chart or possible a future phone app to show the best times to attend the strip clubs to meet women who are especially hot and sexy that night. As is turns out this is only two days per week because most exotic dancers are in the 18 to 35 age group. Generally the first day is for the 26 to 35 year old and the second day of the week is for 18 to 26 year old. So look for a phone app in the future of my astrological “picks” for the best days to go clubbing in 2013 and beyond to meet exotic dancers because they are generally HOT and extra SEXY on these two days per week. — (All of my 100 plus articles online can be reprinted, re-posted, copied, and used without authorization. — J.E. Ante)