There are many fish in the sea, fruits in the tree, and men for me (wink)! However picking the ripest, juiciest and best one in the bunch can be quite tricky if you haven’t got the skills to check and select and this also includes having the nose for smelling up the right man for you! Below are some tips and tricks on how to find the best man in town!
1. Visit the right places.
If you’re into someone artistic, go to art galleries and museums or painting exhibits. Are you a food fanatic? Enroll in cooking or baking classes and sizzle your way to the hot chef beside you. The key here is to find out first what attracts you to a man and zero in on the places you think they frequent.
2. Loosen up.
Okay, so now you’re already in their “field” and they’re all around you, relax. People are magnetically drawn to confident and fun people so don’t be too conscious of your looks or what you’re wearing. Smile and try to enjoy what you’re doing because the more fun you have, the more your aura glows…thus you’ll be attracting more people and increasing your chances of attracting the right guy, too.
3. Beautify yourself.
Of course, getting ready for that “accidental meeting” is always a must. Make sure not to be caught in a “just-got-out-of-bed” look especially if you’re not the vamp-vixen type. Always make sure to wear clothes that accentuate your assets (curves, shape or even your legs for that matter) and never experiment on a look you have serious doubts on. You want to attract the right guy, not the creepy ones.
4. Keep it real.
Don’t pretend to be a fan of rock music if you’re not just to get that hot man’s attention. Chances are you’ll end up with a splitting headache and a bad heartache. Looks aren’t enough to keep the relationship going, rather, it’s how you two will get along that’s going to determine if he’s the best man or not.
Okay, so now that you’ve got the attention of all these guys, you’re stuck with the question or decision on how to find the best man?
You can:
1. Give a test question
Whoever gives you the best or closest answer gets a point. It may be casual like what brand of wine is the best for a dish, what action movie is the best so on. This helps you see who you can really get along based on your likes and similarities.
2. Use your senses
Think with your head and love with your heart; be realistic in deciding because at times, love is not enough to make the relationship strong. both of you have to be mature and strong enough to fight for it. look for someone who can support you and needs your support too. it has to be a two way thing.
Bottom line is that the best man is actually the man who fits your personality, and yes, your needs. A relationship is more than just two people, it’s basically two separate lives that has the ability to merge and create the dream life both of you share.
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