Similar to the way girl’s have close friends that they tell every secret and thought to, guy’s have close friends that they rely on during a relationship. A guy’s close friends can help make or break your relationship with him. If his friends like you, they will support their friend in ensuring the relationship keeps going and he is faithful, but if a guy’s friends don’t like you, the opposite may hold true. Find out how important a guy’s friends are at influencing your relationship and how you can win them over.
What happens if your boyfriend’s friends like you?
When a guy’s friends like his girlfriend they will support every aspect of your relationship. A guy relies on his friends to give him advice about his relationship. They want to know if you fit in with their group, are attractive enough, and if you will be a threat to their friendship. Believe it or not, a guy will follow his friends advice and be easily influenced by their suggestions. If his friends like you, he will be hard pressed to find anything wrong with you and will put much more effort into the relationship.
What happens if your boyfriend’s friends don’t like you?
When a guy relies on his friends for relationship advice, to his benefit or not, he will question if they like the girl he is dating. When his friends like you, the relationship will go smoother since you don’t have any outside interference. However, if his friends don’t like you, he will instantly question if dating you is the right thing to do. He may continue a relationship even if his friends don’t like you, but it will add stress to both of your lives and may not be a healthy relationship. His friends will tease him and make fun of the relationship and his reasoning for dating you when they don’t approve of the relationship. I’ve had a situation where one of my prior girlfriends got into a big fight with one of my childhood friends that I went to college with. The fight got so intense that it divided my relationship and my friendship. To my detriment, I choose the relationship over the friendship. This caused a lot of tension and divide among my group of friends that was not easily rekindled after our eventual breakup.
What can you do to make his friend’s like you?
To win a guy’s friends over is not a hard feat. When we judge our friends new girlfriend we look for someone that gets along with the group, someone that encourages her boyfriend to still hang out with his friends and is an overall good fit for their friend. The biggest turnoff for a guy’s group of friends is when their friend dates someone that doesn’t get along with the group and takes their friend away by not allow him to have his “man” time. You don’t need to do anything special to get along with his friends, just allowing him to have his own time and trying to fit in with his friends is a sure way to be well liked.