A girl who knows she’s got it going on isn’t going to be easily moved by just another set of eyes.
She won’t be fooled by the Prince Charming imitators. She isn’t in search of the
Mr. Clean sporting a tank top, because the T-shirt he tried on didn’t have room for his biceps, or the adrenaline junky popping wheelies on his crotch rocket at a 1000 miles an hour. Now, don’t get me wrong, there are still some girls who have just not moved past the childlike personalities of all these ‘superheroes’, but their place in the deck is nowhere near that of the Queen of Hearts. This next part might seem cliché, but if you follow through, you will see the deep truth that lies within the 3 Simple Steps that are going to land you your Dream Girl.
1st Step: Preparation
No girl takes the time to look beneath your beard. This is more important than it might seem. I will elaborate. First impressions are crucial…Crucial!! Do not let this discourage you, and if anxiety is starting to build, let it, for you will have to get used to it, so that when the big moment comes you will be ready. For some reason men lately, or boys, I can’t tell, are growing outrageous amounts of hair on their face. Global warming hasn’t deterred this epidemic in the least, and summer ironically was met with many enrollees into the Beard Growing Club. Maybe they are acting on their rights to privacy, and throwing off the governments facial recognition software, or are just tired of food falling out from their mouths onto their freshly pressed clothes. The reason remains a mystery, but the choice doesn’t. Don’t grow a beard. Stand out by being clean cut. Really? Yes, the first step is that simple. Encourage your friends even to grow beards, so that when you walk past that girl that makes your heart throb, you will be the only one she notices.
2nd Step: Making the Move
Yes, it is a universal truth that most guys can get a girl’s number, and if they are lucky they will get a real one, but that doesn’t mean she is going to text back, or answer when he calls. If you take this second step right, she will be anticipating your call, and will fall head over heels every time she hears your personalized message tone. When you approach your Dream Girl for the first time remember that the impression you leave her with is the first thing she will think about when her phone rings and your face appears on her screen. So make her smile. What a girl wants (cliché) in this first moment is a completely honest compliment about the way she moves. About the thing that’s got your heart racing. Ask yourself ‘what is it about this girl that’s pulling me in?’ and then tell her. Be sure to remember its all about her. Steer clear of future plans, and by all means don’t invite her to meet the family! Next, take a deep breath, give yourself an inward nod of approval, and then with confidence and a warm smile ask for her number. When she hands over the phone be sure to take a picture of yourself, but don’t look at the phone, give her a smile. Whenever you call and she sees that picture she will remember the way she felt when you took that photo.
3rd Step: Pace yourself
Now that she has let you have a little space in her life, don’t think for a minute that you should have more. Also don’t think for a minute that you aren’t good enough. If you have made it this far you have all you need to succeed and build piece by piece a fruitful relationship with your Dream Girl. I must emphasize the importance of pace setting. Pace is the bedrock of your friendship. It is the brick mason. It is the lifeblood of a healthy relationship. Maintaining pace is caring, free from control. She wants to know you are reliable, and can count on you no matter what, but she doesn’t want to be looked after, and definitely doesn’t want you telling her what to do. Pace is the best way to measure your sincerity, and support of her individuality. Don’t get carried away and let your feelings control your action. Pace yourself. In all that you do, maintain your pace.