Loosing someone whom you seriously love can be very painful. Depression and sorrow find their ways to you. So it’s tough to accept the break up. If you are truly missing your ex, you can get him/her back again. It just needs some strategy.
After your break up, many will give you pieces of advices. Some may help, some may not. Therefore, it is crucial to get some effective advices on how to get your ex back. So let’s proceed:
1. Overcome the depression:
If your ex just has broken up with you, I understand what you’re going through currently. It seems everything is useless to you; no one is there for you. Life is nothing but a waste. But believe me this is not the end. You can get your love back. For that, you need to prepare yourself. You need to overcome the depression and sadness. To do so, you can do these:
- Spend time with your close people.
- Go out with friends to have fun.
- Play your favorite games or visit your favorite places.
- Do self-care things like get yourself fit and improve your outlook.
2. You can call your ex but discretion is must:
That is okay if you call your ex one to two times in every three or four weeks. That will keep you on his/her mind. But calling 100 times in a day and begging to come back is quite desperate act. So leave it behind.
3. Avoid jealousy:
Since you two have broken up, your ex can do whatever he/she wants. So, don’t be jealous if you see your ex with someone else. Don’t do anything threatening and NEVER ever try to nag like a backstabber.
4. Try to understand your ex:
Don’t flow with emotions. Try to understand what your ex is telling you. What was the matter he/she broke up for? You’ve to know what your ex was looking for and what you couldn’t deliver. This will help you to understand the gap of your relation.
5. Control the temptation of gaming:
You may badly want to hit your ex emotionally through some nasty emotional plays. May be you’re dating just to make him/her jealous or showing some aggressive behaviors to hurt deeply. Well control it. These are just some immature act. It will surely push your ex far away from you.
6. Put good impression:
You must act like a mature person. Change your immature behavior and be a better person. Show your ex that you have changed and mature enough to handle any situation. I know this can be hard for you but trust me you have to.
7. Fix the problem:
Since you’ve now overcome the break up, it’s time to find out what exactly the problem was. Many times break ups form based on small issues. If you can find out the problem, may be you can solve it easily. So go for some deep thoughts and try to realize the fact. If you get it, fix it.
8. Arrange a formal meeting:
Invite your ex for a formal meeting. It can be a dinner or just a coffee sit. Then try to discuss about those problems but no argument. Remember you are here to fix the problem not to air up the fire.
Tell your ex that how things went wrong and how you both can solve them. Tell about how much you missed him/her. Ask for forgiveness of your mistakes. If your ex still loves you, he/she surely will forgive you and agree for a make-up.
These are some of the best tips on how to get your ex back. It is highly possible that you will get your ex back after applying these tips. But before you apply these tips, you should answers a few questions to yourself:
- “Do I really love my ex?”
- “Do I really need my ex back?”
- “Does my ex really love me?”
- “Did my ex respect me when we were together?”
- “Did my ex always take me for granted?”
- “Am I happier without my ex?”
Make sure that your ex is worth enough to get him/her back. It’s not wise to take all these ‘troubles’ to get a psycho chick or a jerk back. You would better live your life without him/her.
Believe me, some relationship can’t be saved even if you try billions of the things. So, make sure that your ex is the right person for you and your life. And your relationship is good enough to give it a chance.