No two women are alike, and obviously different women have different requirements when looking for a suitable partner. Nevertheless, there are some universal qualities that all women look for in a man.
It’s a simple fact that women value trust and understanding in a relationship. Although she would like to hear that she looks amazing in that dress, deep down inside, she knows the answer and wants you to spell it out for her. Just tell her the truth, and as long as you take care not to hurt her feelings, she’ll be glad, even grateful for it. When you are honest about everything, you will gain a reputation for being honest and you will get more respect and trust much more quickly. On the other hand, when you lie, you risk breaking that trust. If she finds you lying even just for once, the trust will disappear and it will be hard to gain back.
Commitment is an absolute must for any serious long term relationship. If you are not committed then there will always be a little doubt in the back of her mind wondering if you are really serious about her. When you’re out on a date with her, pay close attention to what she’s saying and make her feel like she’s the only one you care about. Never treat on her. You will never be respected and trusted again once you’ve been unfaithful and there is absolutely no excuse for it.
Women are attracted to men who approach them with total confidence. If confidence is something you don’t have, then practice in front of the mirror: Keep repeating “You’re the best; you’re perfect” until you believe it. Play sports that you are really good at. Instead of hanging out with useless buddies that are impressed by anything you do, spend more time with successful people that can mentor you. The best way to seem confident when dating a woman is to look her right in the eyes. If you are afraid, then look between her eyes because she will never know the difference.
4. Sense of humour
One of the most attractive traits that women love in a man is a sense of humour. Women tend to be sensitive and fragile creatures and can get upset at the drop of a hat. At the end of the day, they just want someone who can make them laugh and drive their blues away. What they really don’t need is the company of another equally depressed soul. So it would go a long way if you have a good sense of humour and exercise it often. In particular, women love people who can laugh at themselves and their own mistakes, while taking a dig at others and constantly putting others down don’t really spell fun for women. Another word of caution, avoid juvenile pranks and crass jokes!
5. Ability to protect
All women want a partner who will be able to protect them physically in times of trouble or danger. This doesn’t mean women are weak, it’s a security thing. Nothing pleases them more than simply telling them”you’re safe with me”. The littlest things you do to make her feel safe will definitely help you win her heart. Offer to walk her home, and if it’s late in the night, put an arm around her protectively. Don’t hesitate if you have to take a stand for her. The safer she feels with you, the more she will respect and love you.
If you follow these five basic rules, you will definitely be a very desirable partner. Good luck!