Have you even been in a position where you are trying to different a genuine guy from a player? The main difference between the two is that a genuine guy actually wants a relationship and cares for you, while a player will say the right lines in order to get what he wants. Learn from what the difference a genuine guy form a player.
A player will use any line he can to get you in bed
The best way to get a girl in bed is by playing with her emotions and giving excessive compliments and lines that boost her self-esteem. It would come to no surprise that every person responds to compliments that boost their self-esteem as being more willing to engage in what the person giving the compliment is ultimately looking for. Think of the last time you purchased a car, or the last time you went on a date with a smooth talker. Did you feel empowered and full of compliments and motivators given by the person on the other end? Sales is very much like dating in the sense that you attempt to make the other party feel as empowered as possible. Player’s will initiate this tactic in order to make your self-esteem so high that getting you in bed will be a matter of just asking, rather than the typical waiting period during dating. Be very careful of anyone that empowers you so much that you feel no inhabitation when dealing with them, as this is a common tactic deployed for the player to get what he wants.
Excessive compliments vs. reserved behavior
Genuine guy’s have a hard time giving excessive compliments that they do not mean. From a guy’s perspective, I use compliments in dating and picking up girls as a way to gain their trust and boost their self confidence. However, the difference between a genuine guy and a player is that the genuine guy will not give you line after line in order to make you feel empowered, while player will make you feel at 100 percent with every word he states. You may be asking yourself why you wouldn’t want to date someone that continuously gives you compliments? However, you want to be careful that his compliments are genuine, rather than a ploy to get in your pants. Genuine guy’s are typically more reserved and will save the compliments and esteem boosting compliments until you are actually dating.
The player’s endgame is sex and the genuine guy’s endgame is a relationship
Almost every girl I met while I was in college has had her wild years that she wishes to regret. This is unfortunate since a lot of these girls were looking for a relationship and a long-term commitment. A player will use his skills at manipulating emotions by using compliments and the right lines in order to get sex. He will never commit and always have an excuse to blow you off if your meeting doesn’t end in his own endgame, which is sex or his own benefit. However, a genuine guy will look for a relationship and an emotional connection along with sex, which is fore fronted by a potential relationship. Genuine guys want a relationship and something more than a physical connection and will be willing to hang out without any form of sex early on, while a player will only care about sex. Keep in mind that a player will manipulate emotions in order to get what he wants, but will be reluctant to wait if it doesn’t benefit him.