Here’s the scenario. You did and/or didn’t do something and it drove her to the point where she took her wedding ring off. Did she take her wedding ring off in front of you? If she did then she may have wanted to see what your reaction would be. Depending on how you react to her action directly reflects how fast she will put the ring back on. In my opinion, it’s even worse if she took the ring off without your knowledge and you just noticed it. The worst case is when she takes off the ring and has to tell you that she did it. If a husband doesn’t notice that his wife took off her ring I believe that maybe he is thinking about too many other things, hasn’t really noticed anything about his wife in a while, secretly noticed but won’t acknowledge it to his wife and/or simply doesn’t give a damn what his wife does.
Now, listen carefully. Any time a wife takes off her wedding ring is a very bad thing for any marriage. It doesn’t matter if you have been married a day or forty years. It’s a red alert! This action should make you very upset whether you show it or not. If you still love your wife you should as soon as you notice ask her kindly to put the ring back on. And, you and your wife should calmly and without blaming each other discuss what led up to her taking her ring off. Communication is key in this situation. Hopefully, she still has the ring to put back on. You can always get another ring if need be. Your job as a loving husband is to get her to put the ring back on.
Let’s say you find out that your wife took off her wedding ring. You don’t show any reaction and/or don’t question her why she did that. Do you really think that not acknowledging her action is going to help you as her husband? That is the worst thing you could ever do.
The longer the ring is off the worse it turns out for you. What do I mean by that you may be asking. As time passes she may increasingly think that you really don’t care much about the marriage and act accordingly. Another man may notice that the ring is off and take advantage of her mental state to get into her pants. Or, your wife may begin to distance herself from you to prepare herself for a possible separation.
It’s not all about the fact that she took her ring off. It’s all about how you react to her actions and what steps you take to get her to put the ring back on. You may loose your wife if you ignore what happened and/or continually let her go on without wearing her wedding ring. If that’s the case, be a man and grow some balls and let her go. Life is short and every wife deserves a husband who is proud that she is wearing his ring.
Bottom line. It’s to your advantage to get that ring back on as fast as possible. If you don’t then realize this. You had your chance and you blew it! Even if you get her back she won’t love you as much as before. In the back of her mind she will always remember how you let her go without wearing her wedding ring. And that means a lot to a wife even though she may not tell you that. Don’t be a meatball and heed my words.
If your wife never took her wedding ring off, unless for necessary reasons, you must be a great and wonderful husband. Every wife deserves a husband like you. Please pass on your wisdom to other husbands so that they too can be great husbands. You are the husband. Do the right thing!