I was online to find the right man. After dating different men, I concluded I want to stay away the SAF white guys and the one who had been in relationship with Asian woman!
The men I dated who was not SAF, treated me like a lady. There was no romance, but I had good time and went home with good mood!
There were a few jerks. but I let the date finish. It was not anyone’s fault. It happened and I took it as a mature person.
The worst dating experiences I had came from the white men who SAF! In my eyes, they were less sexually attractive! But the date became a nightmare because all SAF white men humiliated me. Well…only I can feel that! I felt attacked!
I started to question what a white man really meant by “I like Asian woman!” I spoke to my friend (who is none chinese!) and she told me just took it a nice way. Don’t generalize! Yes, theoretically, she was right! But she can’f feel what I felt on a date.
I googled and finally, I found the answer, a website with most visitors are foreign men in China! 95% topics are posted by none Chinese men who were involved with Chinese women. I found some really interesting points.
An Australian (never been to China) posted that all his Chinese GF had bad breath! but he attracts to them and wished to marry one. The bad breath bothered him so he asked the Dr. (in my opinion, this Dr. really understood Chinese women so well!)
“Also is it acceptable to talk to a partner about such an issue and suggest probiotics or diet modifications?”
The Dr wrote back “if the woman were to end the relationship out of a sense of humiliation and anger, you will have saved yourself a lot of future grief in more ways than one.” Which I personally agree!
Then he wrote he dated many Chinese women over 6 years, but he found many Chinese women value money over love, disbelief others, act immature and he worried their motives (resident visa).
The Dr, wrote “Can’t you find a pretty Australian girl (one with nice clean breath) to fall in love with? Smile. “ Yes, naturally , I would say the same to this guy!
He replied “Many of the Chinese women I dated were selfish, immature, materialistic, and stubborn, along with a lack of critical thinking skills and sometimes were outright rude.” Alright, why you kept dating those women? “Compared to Western women, I find it much easier to find Asian women who are interested in dating with me and over time, I think I have come to prefer the physical features and looks of Asians”
He opened up and I had such thoughts for long time and now he approved to me that I was right. Most white men interesting in Asian women simply because he got the attention he never got before. They are always winners dating Chinese! When they met me, they did not get the attention they used to from Chinese women. They felt instant rejection so they became gross even though I was friendly and nice to everyone.
Dr. wrote “Albert Einstein is attributed with having once said that “insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” Taking the smartest man’s advice,I won’t date SAF white guys!
The only white guy I would like is the one who loves me for me, for who I am as a person!